Business Trips

 
At the beginning of the month I had a five-day long business trip to Southern California for a conference and food show.  I planned it months ago, and knew it was coming, but it didn’t make it any easier to say good bye to my family for five days.  I worried that the two kids, school and nannyshare schedules, grocery shopping, meal planning and all the rest of it would be stressful for J.  I worried that the kids would miss me, and then I worried that they wouldn’t miss me.  My trip was pretty good from a business standpoint and everything went well at home too.  The family ate pizza three times in four days, went to a birthday party, had meals with friends and didn’t miss me to much.  I missed them something awful, but J sent me photos and dispatches from the home front.  

While I was gone J got a pretty bad cold.  On Thursday night he asked Clare to make sure to get herself dressed and ready for school in the morning.  On Friday morning he woke up a little later than usual and came out to the living room to find Clare completely dressed, Sam completely dressed (with a clean diaper), and both of them eating cereal.  Clare told J that she wanted him to sleep in so she got herself and Sam ready for school.  He told me later that he almost started crying right then and there he was so touched. 

I came home, of course, since even five-day business trips do end.  I came home to two children and a husband who were fine without me but were still happy to see me.  Oh, and a little girl with the stomach flu, which shortly turned into two kids with the flu.  OK, maybe they needed me after all.

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