Happy Birthday Freddy!

freddy walking

Happy Birthday to our little Freddy-boy!  Last weekend we had a birthday celebration for our little surprise baby.  Family came from far and wide to celebrate this sunshiney little boy – and celebrate we did.frederic birthdayThere was a big birthday party at JP and Debbie’s house.  Family from five states came in for the birthday weekend and party, complete with Debbie-made banana cake.  Freddy was a particular fan of the cake.

Dion sibs

The Dion family was well-represented at Freddy’s birthday, which was appropriate since Freddy is named after the original Frederic Dion, who is the father of four of the good-looking crew above.  We Dion’s don’t miss a party, as J says, if there’s a party then the Dions come from the four corners.  It’s not just about the party, we also had a girls day on Saturday complete with pedis.

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Clare loves pedicuresEven the little girls got in on the action.  This is Clare’s second pedicure ever and she’s pretty much in love with them.

Girls Pedis

Happy Birthday to our sweet little Freddy.  Thank you for giving us a wonderful year and a fun reason to celebrate and get together with family.

 

 

Deep thoughts from the Clare Bear – Part One Million

I could write a post every week entitled “Deep thoughts from the Clare Bear” since we have so many conversations with this girl that throw J and I off guard.  She’s a sweet, silly, sassy girl but she’s also a deep thinker who is just as likely to be contemplating the meaning of life as she is to be imagining herself living at Arendelle in Frozen.

 

clare climbing at the park

Last week Clare and I walked to the library together.  I love our weekend walks since it gives Clare time to just chit chat about whatever she’s thinking about.  On this particular walk she threw glanced over her shoulder and said, “do you like being a mom?”

Keeping my voice calm and relaxed. “Yes, I do Sweetie.  I love it.”

“Is there something that you don’t like about being a mom?”

Working harder at keeping my voice calm and relaxed. Reminding myself to find the balance between being honest and not laying to many of my emotions on my five-year-old. “Well, sometimes it makes me pretty tired.  Sometimes I get overwhelmed and I feel bad when I get frustrated.  But mostly I love it.”

“OK.”

Clare skips off.  I take a big sigh.

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iPhone Photo Drop – March 2015

It’s that time again! The time where I throw a mishmatch of my favorite stories and pictures from the last few months.  Enjoy!

A little while ago, Sammy told me that he didn’t like my kisses.  “I only like Daddy’s kisses.  Yours are wet.  I have to wipe them off.”  I laughed at this silly little boy and his funny observations on the world.  (My feelings were only hurt a teensy-tinsy bit.)

Over Christmas I was mentioning this story to my Mom and Debbie and Clare overheard it.  She skipped through the room and said “I love your kisses Mom.  I think they’re just right.”

IMG_1614Out on a walk with Sammy:
Me: Sam, what are you thinking about?
Sam: Beluga whales.

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On long car rides we’ll often play the “Guess Animal Game” where one person thinks of an animal and everyone else has to ask questions and try to guess the animal that they are thinking of. We played in the car the other day and things got pretty silly.  J and I just stayed out of it, listening and giggling to ourselves.

“I’m thinking of an animal.  But it’s not an animal.  We put it on paper and it… sticks to things.”

“Is it tape?”

“Yes!”

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“I’m thinking of an animal that is an animal but it’s riding in the car and it has blond hair and it likes dinosaurs!”

“It’s me!”

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kids wearing goggles

kids watching tv with belly out

 

Sammy and J were picking up pizza a few weeks ago. Sam was bopping around the restaurant in his usual Sammy way. J glanced over and saw that the woman waiting in line with them was literally petting Sam’s head.

“I just couldn’t help myself,” she explained. “Normally I’m not a kid person, but he’s just so cute.”

sam climbing at the park

Farewell to a Good Dog

 It was a sad day this last Monday at the Mac House.  We had to say good-bye to our first baby, Miss Sadie May.  She was 15 years old and it was time, but it doesn’t make it any easier.
Sadie was dealing with typical old-dog health problems and slowed down each winter.  This last winter has been tough on her and I knew that we had a decision to make soon.  The end of life decision is the very worst and hardest part of pet ownership, but I do feel that we handled it well.
The kids are handling it well.  They had the opportunity to say good-bye and give her pets before we went to the vet. They’ve been a little bit sad and have had lots of questions about life and death in trying to understand it all. In all honesty, Sadie wasn’t all that attached to the children.  She was the first baby in the family and she always resented being bumped from the position.  She accepted the children, but she didn’t really enjoy the kids.
J and I, on the other hand, are pretty broken up.  We’re just trying to remember the good times with our sweet doggie girl – how she used to dance on her hind legs like a circus dog, how she always stretched before standing up, how she used to bound like a greyhound at the beach.  We reminisced about the time when I opened my eyes after meditating to find her sitting on the yoga mat in front of me, about to reach up and lick my nose.  About how she used to sneak on the furniture and we only knew that she did it because she left a big drool spot and white hairs.  She was our constant companion on walks, hikes, camping trips, beach trips, outings to parks and anything else we could take her too.
 

She was, quite simply, the sweetest dog I’ve ever met.  She’s left a hole in our household and we miss her very much.

Raffi for the generations

 I grew up on Raffi.  Who is Raffi?  He’s a Canadian singer-songwriter who was very popular in the children’s music set back in the 80s.  He sang Baby Beluga, Bananaphone and Down by the Bay, among many, many others.  We had a whole section of Raffi records in our record collection and listened to them regularly.  I even went to a Raffi concert when I was about eight and waited in line to get his autograph (which I’m sure my parents still have – along with all of the records). 

I’ve sung Raffi’s biggest hits many, many, many times – first as a kid, then as a baby sitter and preschool teacher and then as a parent.  We sang I Like to Eat Eat Eat Apples and Bananas to Clare when we were trying to get her to eat applesauce and bananas.  We sang Down by the Bay daily for about a year when it was Clare’s favorite song.  Tonight Jeremy sang Baby Beluga to Sammy at bedtime since he asks for it as his bedtime lullaby.  We are big, big Raffi fans around here. So when I saw that Raffi was playing a concert in Portland – well, I jumped on it.

 
So the kids and I went!  (J isn’t quite the Raffi fan that we three are.) The show was sold out, so it was a theater packed full of kids, grandparents and parents all anxiously awaiting Raffi.  Perhaps no one was quite so anxious as the enthusiastic little five year old girl, who dressed for the occasion in her prettiest birthday dress that just barely still fit her.  
“Maybe Raffi will see me and ask me to go on stage with him,” she whispered to me.  “I want to wear my prettiest outfit just in case.”
Well, Raffi didn’t invite any children on stage with him, but Clare still danced in the aisle and sang along to her favorite songs.  Sammy sat most of the show in my lap, comfortable and content to let me sing into his ear.  I may or may not have wiped away a tear when I got to deep in thinking about doing something with my children that I had done as a child.  Sometimes the emotion of these things sneaks up on me – that is, when I’m not singing This Little Light of Mine.

Sammy at School

 

 Sammy’s been at school for three months now and has pretty much loved it.  He has moments where he’s shy when I drop him off and once told me that he cried because he missed me, but for the most part he’s very happy while he’s there.  

His teacher is really good at sharing pictures from the classroom, so we get a nice view of what his classroom days are like.  What he shares is different than the pictures show – we hear his exploits of touching a slug on the playground and when someone did something silly to make him laugh.  The pictures are off the quiet times when he’s working in the classroom.

Scrubbing a table.
 
Chopping apples

 Peeling and chopping carrots

 Washing a “baby.”  That’s actually a work that isn’t typically found in a Montessori classroom, but Clare asked for it one day and her teachers set it up for her.  It’s nice to see that it’s so popular in the classroom.

Pouring red sand into a funnel.

 Something with sponges – I think it’s absorbing water and squeezing it out.

Tracing shapes.  This picture is a few months old – he’s pretty good at using a penmanship grip now.

Observing fish.
Sammy loves the fish in the classroom.  He loves the other kids, though I think he’s fairly quiet and spends most of his time observing the other children.  He likes the individual activities where he can focus and explore something at his own pace, though he is making friends.  On the playground he mostly runs with Clare and her crew playing “family,” “kitties,” and “Frozen”, but in the classroom he seems to gravitate to some of the quieter, gentler children.  His teacher does a very nice job of engaging him, communicating with him and helping him develop into a confident, if quiet, member of the classroom community.

Phonetic Spelling

This little cutie is learning and growing by leaps and bounds every day (OK, so she’s not so little… but don’t tell her Mama). She’s in kindergarten now and is learning about addition and subtraction, geography and science.  All of a sudden she’ll burst out with some new knowledge and surprise us with her understanding of the food chain or add or subtract some numbers.  For me, the most fun is her learning how to read and write.  Her teachers focus a lot of writing phonetically, which leads to some “creative” spelling.  It’s really fun.
Clare’s teacher is giving her a math lesson.
 
 Clare packed my lunch bag for me and slipped a note into it.  It reads “Have a good day.”  It made for a very good day indeed.
 
 
 Clare wrote up a menu when she was playing “restaurant.”  It reads
Quesadilla
Pizza Crackers (I think these are two different items)
Spagetti
Clare’s Restaurant
Cupcake
We do more reading at our house then they do at school.  She and I try to sit and have her read to me several times a week.  The books are very simple and I do lots of prompting, but it’s a lovely time for the both of us and I can tell she enjoys learning a new skill.  As a lifelong lover of reading, it warms my heart so deeply to see her learning to read.  I can’t wait to see where it takes her.

Christmas in Pictures

We spent Christmas 2014 in Bend with the Dion family.  The four little elves, named Clare, Sam, Maddy and Frederic, sprinkled holiday cheer on all of us grown-ups.  Their cheer worked – we all had a great holiday.  Though I don’t think anyone had a better holiday than these elves.  Christmas is pretty special when you’re a child.
Our Christmas included presents, lots of food, baking cookies and cakes, riding in “one horse open sleighs,” ice skating, watching movies and having adventures. 

 

Christmas Anticipation

 
 We love Christmas around here.  Yes, the actual holiday on December 25th is pretty great, but I may love the December festivities and lead-up to Christmas more than the holiday itself.  This year both kids got it.  They got that Christmas is a special day, they counted down the days to it on the advent calendar, they got excited about the Elf on the Shelf, they wrote letters to Santa, they got excited for Christmas lights, sang carols and really got the spirit of the holiday. 

Christmas doesn’t begin at the Mac House without a trip to the Christmas tree farm.  We headed up to a farm outside of town, saw reindeer, waved at Santa and trekked all over the farm looking for the perfect tree.   The weather was oddly warm and the kids played and played all over while trying to convince us to bring home 15-foot high trees that wouldn’t fit through our front door.

 We settled on a nice 6 foot tree and brought it home for some preschool decorating.  Some people decorate their trees with a theme.  They choose a couple of colors or decorate with all glass balls.  Our theme this year was… Unbreakable Ornament Clump.  I only pulled out ornaments that would be hard to break and let the kids have at it with the decorating.  They had a ball.  Our ornaments are mostly about 2 feet off the ground and are kind of clumped together.  I spent the first week the tree was up artfully redecorating and then gave up.  The ornaments are fun to play with and it’s more important to me that we have a tree that makes all of us happy rather than one that is perfectly arranged. 

Another holiday ritual is the annual trip to see Santa.  The kids dressed in their finest (in Clare’s case, her finest summer dress from two years ago) and we ventured out to see the big guy.  Clare loved him.  She perched herself on his lap and he told her that she looked like a summer garden.  Sammy waved at him from afar and liked the big guy, but didn’t want to touch him, talk to him or make eye contact.  So we ended up with the family picture, where Mom and Dad jumped in on the action.  

The kids gave Santa their wish lists.  Clare wanted a real kitten, a real puppy, Elsa and Anna’s Castle and red high heeled shoes.  Uhhhh, no we’re not getting a cat or a dog.  Elsa and Anna’s Castle is sold out and there ain’t no way I’m buying my five-year-old high heels.  Sammy had one simple request – ducklings.  Stay tuned for how well Santa Claus handled those requests. 
 


A-Book A-Book A-Book (and some TV shows)

It’s been a while since we’ve done a book update.  We still read a lot of books around here, though maybe less than in years past since we’re all on the go so much.  Nap times and bed times are always reading times and the kids will pull books out during the day to look at.  

It’s fun to see Sam’s taste in books develop.  He loves books about animals, preferably books that have complex pictures.  He isn’t always interested in story lines, but he loves to study pictures.  His current favorite book is  1,001 Things to Spot in the Sea.  We “read” it almost daily – and by read it, I mean we look at the pictures and talk about what the different animals are doing.  I’m getting a bit tired of it, but Sam can’t get enough of it.

 Before the 1,001 Things to Spot in the Sea, the favorite book was Animalia.  Graeme Base’s books have beautiful illustrations that defy description.  They are beautiful and complex with lots of details and things to explore.  Sammy and J especially studied each picture, finding every little detail and picture-story within the picture.

We’ve long been fans of Mo Willems books (Knufflebunny is a perennial favorite).  Sammy loves the Pigeon books – he laughs out loud at the obstinate pigeon and his buddy the duckling.

 We’re starting to check out more Early Reader and Chapter books from the library for Clare.  She’s ready for something a little more complex than a picture book and can follow a story over several nights.  Mo Willems has a series called Elephant and Piggie, some of which Clare can read herself, which has his same humor with a little more complex stories.  Sammy also loves this series. 

Exploring chapter books has been really fun.  Clare really liked the Catwings series from Ursula Le Guin and lately we’ve really, really liked the Toys Go Out series.  So far we’ve checked them out from the library but I can see buying these series as she gets older and is able to read them herself.
Of course it’s not all books at our house.  I set pretty strict limits on screen time for the kids, and we haven’t really introduced them to many apps on the iPad, but we do watch some favorite TV shows.  I stick mostly to PBS Kids shows and my kids enjoy them.  Curious George is always a favorite (the kids love his movies) and lately Clare has really gotten into the Cat in the Hat.  Sammy loves Word World, but he likes Curious George and Daniel Tiger too.  Some kids shows are just awful to watch and listen to (Dora and Cailou, I’m looking at you) but Cat in the Hat and Curious George are two of the least annoying shows out there.
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