Clarie Kitty Cat!

Our Clarie Cat wishes you a Happy Halloween! Or rather, she wishes you “Trick or Treat” since that’s what she’s said all day today. Unlike last year when she was more interested in taking the candy as opposed to eating it, this year she actually understands what the candy is all about. We don’t let her eat that much, but she has had a few pieces of chocolate today.
I wasn’t sure how into the whole dressing up thing she would be. She loves LOVES to put on hats, purses, and other accessories and strut around the house, so I thought that she might be into the costume. However, a few weeks ago I was explaining the Halloween concept to her by saying “you pretend to be a kitty or a doggie by wearing a costume.” Clare replied with “but I a girl!” I said “yes, you’re still a girl but you pretend to be something else. Like when you wear your lady bug costume, or when we play that we’re busy bumble bees.” “But I a girl!” However, my fears of Clare refusing or not understanding Halloween were put to rest when she saw herself in the mirror as a kitty cat and started to meow.
I took Clare to Multnomah Village for their big Halloween trick-or-treat-fest. It was pretty crowded, and at one point Clare told me she was feeling “a little shy.” Our little kitty cat gets overwhelmed in crowds. But she liked seeing the other kids and was more confident by the end. Tonight J took her out around the neighborhood while I passed out candy (aka sat down with my feet up). Looking at Clare’s costume, you can tell that I’m a bit of a novice at this children’s costume thing. Notice I dressed my child in head-to-toe black and then sent her out at night. Note to self: make sure next year’s costume involves glow sticks and reflective tape.


Keeping the Wheels on the Bus

It’s been a wild week around here – one of those weeks that begs of cliches about juggling balls in the air, keeping the wheels on the bus, treading water, and all sorts of other things that pretty much means that we’re having a messy, short-tempered, things-not-quite-getting-done, everyone is sick kind of week. Or rather, that’s the way the week started and now I’m happy to report that things are running a little more smoothly. It was a rough start, but we seem to have kept the wheels on and, as Clare sings, the wheels on the bus go round and round.

After what seems like a month of annoying cold symptoms that almost-but-not-quite get better, on Sunday night Clare woke up crying pitifully every two hours. Her nose was running, she was drooling and her eyes were crusting up. At about 4 am, with my little Bug sleeping on my chest, I decided that come hell or high water I was taking her to the pediatrician the next day. There was no earthly reason she should still be this sick. On top of that I am 37 weeks pregnant, meaning I could go into labor at any time. This not only means that I might be laboring while completely exhausted and sleep deprived (no one’s idea of a good time) but it would also mean that my poor baby girl who was crying for “Mama” during the night wouldn’t have Mama available. On top of that, J had spent the whole weekend pushing through coughing, green phlemy nastiness. Yep, we were a hurting family.
So come Monday there were doctors visits all around, medications procured and chicken soup made. Also on Monday I had a big afternoon at work (after the pediatrician visit and two trips to the pharmacy) that included speaking to an MBA class and a late evening event. When I finally got home I was sore and having contractions. Now it’s Thursday and I’m happy to say that two of us have lingering coughs (myself included) but no more major sickness or major contractions. Relief all around!
Why am I trying to document this crazy week? To remind myself in this virtual baby book that most weeks of being a dual-career family with 1.99 kids are balancing acts and that some weeks require a larger correction than others. This week the correction required is that tomorrow will be my last week of work before maternity leave, instead of Nov. 4 like I originally planned. Yes, I’ll only be 38 weeks along and am risking spending two weeks sitting at home without a babe in my arms, and yes this may mean two extra unpaid weeks at the end of my maternity leave, but we need it. I need time to take walks, finish the nursery, clean the house, make meals, take naps, etc. Clare needs one-one-one time with her Mama. J needs to not worry about me having evening contractions brought on by exhaustion and stress. Baby needs a more peaceful resting place right now, with a family who embraces his arrival with joy and anticipation not stress, fear and anxiety. So, for this week, the balancing act took a firm step in the direction of home and we are all taking a deep sigh of relief.

Scenes from a Thursday Night

Here are a few pics and stories from a typical Thursday night at the Mac House.
Tonight J asked me if I wanted leftover gnocchi or stir fry for dinner. I told him “either.” Clare looked up and said “I want Either too!” She always wants to eat what we’re having. Except that a few weeks ago she wanted some of J’s sriracha sauce. J gave her the teensiest taste of it on his finger and she declared it “gives me an owie on my tongue! I need milk!” Tonight she saw J’s sriracha sauce and said “No Dada. I don’t want that! I don’t like it.”

I convinced J to actually take my picture at 37 weeks. This is a pretty typical evening look in our kitchen – me in PJs with hair and makeup done from the work day, random mess including a pumpkin on the stove (just because), random mixing bowl and cookbook on the counter for the pizza dough that J is making tonight, a chair pulled out into the kitchen so that Clare can watch J make the dough, and a package on the table behind me from Grandma T (Thanks for the curtains!!).

Our usual bedtime ritual includes brushing teeth, bath, putting on PJs and reading books with her blanky. She usually requests to read books with Dad so this is a common evening sight. I tease J that he reads an extra book and that’s why she prefers him at bedtime, but I think it’s because this has turned into their special time together.

Visit to the Pumpkin Patch

A few weeks ago Clare saw a bunch of pumpkins at the grocery store and was fascinated by them. I told her that we were going to go to get our pumpkin at the pumpkin patch in a few weeks. She hasn’t forgotten and every now and then has mentioned “the pumpkin patch.” Well, a sunny weekend without a trip planned was just the time to do it. So even though Clare has been fighting a cold and was up and down a lot last night (and so were her parents) we set off at the crack of 9:30 to the pumpkin patch. After a quick stop to collect Grandma and Grampa, we made our way to the pumpkin patch.

This particular farm is not just a pumpkin patch but also a harvest carnival and activity area. Clare immediately wanted to ride the horses in the pony ride area. She was very excited about it up until the point when J put her on the pony. Then she informed him that she was “scared” and “don’t like it.” J stayed with her, and Grandpa took the other side, so by the time they had completed one lap she was feeling much more confident. Grandma and I even got a few smiles out of her by the end.

Besides the pony rides, Clare got to go down a hay slide, watch other farm animals (her favorites were the ducks), and helped us pick out the perfect pumpkins. She also got to ride in the wheelbarrow like the little queen of the patch.


Finally, a few pictures from the last few weeks around here.


September Pictures

I’m feeling pretty tired tonight (my energy ends at about 8:30 pm) so I’ll just throw on some of my favorite September pictures from Adam’s nannyshare photography.




Clare said she was drawing “flowers.”

I love this picture! Clare and G are on a “slug hunt.”

Her latest trick is hanging upside down on the climber. Isn’t she getting grown-up these days?

A couple of other highlights of Clare at 16 months.

  • She can identify all of her letters and will tell us “M is for Mom, D is for Dad (or Dog), H is for Horse, etc.” She can also recognize her name when it’s spelled out in capital letters.
  • She can also identify all of her numbers (1 through 9) and is getting pretty decent at counting things. She’s not always accurate, for example she counted that I had 6 toes on one foot this morning, but she’s usually pretty close. She can also identify quantities of two and three by sight.
  • She loves to pretend to talk on the phone. Every day we talk to Oma, Papa, Grandma T, Grandpa, Danny, and/or Baby Maddy. She likes to play with our phones, but she’s been known to “call” people with anything that vaguely resembles a phone.

Signs that You’re 35 Weeks Pregnant

As if I could possibly forget that I’m pregnant, a few things lately have reminded me that I’m absolutely in the final stretch. So here are a few humorous musings from the large and gestating – you might be 35 weeks pregnant if…
– You catch yourself thinking “I wish we weren’t going to the beach this weekend. I’d rather stay home and wash baby clothes.”
– Your daughter starts to heave and moan whenever she gets up off the floor or the couch and you realize that she’s imitating you.
– Your husband glances up after not seeing you for a long day and the first thing he says is “I think you grew.”
– There is a dance party in your abdomen almost every night from 3 to 5 am. OK, so this isn’t funny but it’s true. It’s actually an improvement from a few weeks ago when I would wake up furiously angry (and I mean LIVID) for no discernible reason. I would have to calm down before I could go back to sleep.
– You’ve started to refer to your baby as Mr. Monkey Toes due to him wedging his feet and toes into your ribs.
– A co-worker looks at your with a confused expression during a meeting, and you realize it’s because your shirt is jumping up and down with the rhythm of Mr. Monkey Toes’ hiccups.
– On many of the 3 to 5 am awake times (sort of a reverse nap), you catch yourself making a mental list of all of the soups, stews, casseroles, muffins, breads and other foods that you MUST make and freeze IMMEDIATELY. If you don’t cook and freeze TOMORROW there will obviously be no way for your family to possibly eat after the baby comes!! You’ve also caught yourself googling whether or not you can freeze peanut butter sandwiches.
On a serious note, I’ve started to get really excited about meeting the baby soon. I wrote in this post a while ago about being content to just be pregnant and wait on the baby. However, now I’m getting antsy to meet this little guy, seeing what he looks like, and seeing if his movements and actions are similar to how they feel in my tummy. I can’t wait to see J with a new baby to snuggle and I am really excited to watch Clare fall in love with her brother. I’m starting to imagine kissing little baby fingers and toes, fawn over every yawn and facial expression, snuggle and smell into his little neck, and generally fall in that intoxicating new baby love.

Goings-On

Clare says “cheese!”
It’s been a busy couple of weeks around here, hence the lack of posts. Besides that, I’ve reached the point of pregnancy where I’m tired all the time again.

A couple of weeks ago we did Race for the Cure with the family and friends Carrie and Leah. It was a fun morning event that we’ve done almost every year for 8 years, first in Phoenix and now here in Portland. We just walk in the 5K, and with 40,000 people along the route it’s more like Stroll for the Cure (or, in my case, Waddle). As you can see we accumulated some balloons and pom-poms to entertain Clare during the walk.

Also in the last few weeks was my 33rd birthday. I kept telling people I was turning 32, until J finally corrected me at the end of the day. Whoops – guess the memory is the first thing to go! Adam took this picture of J and I before dinner. He was impressed by our unintentionally color-coordinated outfits.
This picture also shows my 33 week prego tummy. I’m pretty sure I’m bigger today than I was when I delivered Clare, and while I claim I’m even more tired and sore then with her J corrects me and says I complained a lot more in the last pregnancy. Hmmm… Maybe I just have less time to complain or pay less attention to myself these days. Regardless, I am definitely feeling the discomforts of the third trimester and I’m torn between being done with being pregnant and not feeling ready for the new baby. Good thing I have 6 weeks left… really, a good thing… yeah, maybe if I keep saying it then I’ll believe it…

Lastly, a few serious pictures of Clare as she plays. The picture above she’s playing with Legos after a busy day of painting (which most of it seemed to have ended up on her shirt). She’s painting again below, which is a common request these days. Our arts and letters child has really been getting into art projects.

Besides art, Clare’s music appreciation continues to grow. Just about every day she’ll start singing a song and I’m like “I didn’t realize she knows that song!” Between Adam and preschool her repertoire is growing. Her latest favorites are the “Sleeping Bunny song,” “Baby Bumblebee,” “The Wheels on the Bus” and “If You’re Happy and You Know It.” A few days ago we were in the car and at the end of a song on the radio Clare suddenly says “That was a GREAT song! I liked it!” J and I cracked up.


Nesting… finally!

I’m now eight months pregnant and have been waiting and waiting for that nesting urge to kick in. Finally a few weeks ago it started, but before that I kept looking at messy closets and a messy office and thinking “I’ll tackle that when I’m nesting.” Uhhhh, yeah, then I started to realize that the baby is due in less than eight weeks (!!!!!!!) and that if I’m going to actually have a room to bring him home to then I better kick my nesting butt in gear.

So, I spent the weekend “nesting.” And by nesting I mean bossing Jeremy around and making him and my dad (THANKS DAD!) move all of the furniture out of the office, arranging it in the “guest suite” side of the basement, moving the dresser and the rug into the baby’s room and setting up the crib. Rest assured Grandma T, we’re keeping your suite intact, but now it will have a desk and computer in it. By the end of the weekend we were all tired and sore but I feel much better knowing that we’ve tackled the biggest step in setting up the nursery.
As for the nursery, I’ve decided to keep it fairly simple and with a nice, straight-forward balloon theme. My inspiration is this funky old lamp that JP and I had in our bedroom as kids. It has this great shade that’s made up of balloons. I was looking at it one day and realized that bright, basic shapes are what infants like to look at. By keeping the theme fairly simple it will be easy to change out as Lil’ Guy grows up and develops more of his own tastes. Until then, this is what I’m thinking with the decor.

I bought this mobile a few months ago. I’m excited to put it over the crib – or maybe hanging in a corner… I’m not sure.
Mom and Dad bought us this rug (Thanks guys!). It’s super-soft underfoot so it’ll be great for the baby and I to hang out on. It also has a bunch of colors in it – soft greens and browns, bright reds and blues, very versatile colors that we can use in a bunch of decorating themes in the next several years.
Lastly, the big decorating “focal point” in the room will be a bunch of paper lanterns (like the ones pictured) arranged in the corner of the room with strings coming down like a bunch of balloons (high enough where the baby can’t reach).
And no blog post could be complete without a picture of Clare (or, at least until the new guy comes). In the picture above, Clare and I were waiting to have dinner and J snapped a pic with his iPhone. Doesn’t Clare look at least three with her hair pulled back? She has a bit of a pony tail obsession right now and requested “two pony tails” on Saturday morning. So she rocked “two pony tails” all day along with a “grass” hula skirt she found in a drawer. It was quite a look, but Clare pulled it off nicely.

A few quotes from the Clare Bear

Our pediatrician recommended that I keep a little notebook to write down the cute things that Clare says and the fun conversations we have. Since this is my baby book I figure I’ll write them down here along with some pictures from the last few weeks (some of which coincide with the pictures).

I took this picture a few days ago. Clare was not happy that I picked her up at nannyshare that day (she wanted to stay and play with G) – I asked her if she was sad to leave G and Adam. She said, tearfully, “yes Mama! I want to stay and play!” When we got home I started dinner and she packed her play phone into her purse, tucked her lion under her arm, and went out into the backyard. When I tried to follow her she told me “No! By self!” She and Lion spent about 20 minutes playing on the climber, chatting (no doubt about how mean Mama is), sliding together, and generally having a good time.
This is a family picture that my mom took of the family over the weekend in Bend. I like this one because the belly has made an appearance in family photos! It’s the first sighting of Our Baby. As for Clare’s quotes about the baby, we talk a lot the new baby coming. Clare talks about “baby coming soon… in a couple of days” “baby in Mama’s tummy” and “baby will cry, but it’s OK.”
The picture above is Clare on her new tricycle. My parents bought it for her, and darned if she didn’t immediately start pedaling. It took her an additional day to figure out the whole pedal/steer at the same time thing, but she’s got it and is now the sassiest thing on three wheels. She woke up from her nap and I told her “There’s a surprise for you downstairs.” She looked at me and said “is it my birthday?” I told her no, it wasn’t her birthday. I don’t think she believed me and sang “Happy Birthday to Clare” the whole way down the stairs.
Clare’s never been a big fan of car rides (understatement). On our way up to Todd Lake in Bend for a picnic (pictures below) she was throwing a whiny fit. J asked her “why are you whining?” Finally Clare answered “I angwy (angry).” “Why are you angry?” “I angwy because… I in the car!” This is the first time Clare’s given us a reason for an emotion, and both J and I looked at each other with raised eyebrows. Of course we couldn’t do much about it, but we told her that we understood and we would be at the lake soon.
One day, after a particularly yummy Mexican lunch with a fair amount of guacamole, J said to Clare “You’re so messy!” Clare looked at him and responded “you’re so lucky!” This cracked us up, because this is something that Aunt Donna and her husband Mike say to each other jokingly. We didn’t realize Clare had noticed it, but she filed it away and I’m pretty sure even copied Donna’s Southern accent.
A fun little game that we’ve started playing together is Clare will look at someone (usually me) and say “Hi Daddy!” I respond with saying “Hi G!” She giggles and says “Hi Grandma!” I’ll respond with “Hi Sadie” and back and forth with calling each other the wrong names. Those silly little intentionally-wrong games are popular around here – like Clare walking around the house, pretending not to see me and calling “Mama! Mama – you in the kitchen? You in the living room? Where you go Mama?” Silly girl…
Today, on the way back from the store, Clare pipes up from the back seat “Do you have wings Mama?” “No sweetie. Do you have wings?” “Yes!” She then flapped her arms like little wings. I have no idea where this came from but it was incredibly cute!
Lastly, a couple of months ago we went to the zoo. Clare seemed to have fun but didn’t seem to love it as much as J and I thought she would. Suddenly, last week she walks into the dining room and says “I brushed a goat at the zoo.” Yes, yes she did brush a goat at the zoo. “And I see lions and elephants and zebras and giraffes.” That’s all, just a zoo memory from weeks ago that we haven’t talked about lately. Those little wheels are always turning!

Recap of Summer… So far…

Hooray! More Adam pictures from July and August! We love Adam for many reasons but I LOVE that he does such a great job of capturing the day-to-day toddler moments. Literally, each month he’ll take 400 photos of the kids in their various activities. Between the pictures and his daily naptime email updates, it keeps us very informed and involved in Clare’s activities even when we’re not with her all the time.

One theme for the summer has been “toddler” Clare becoming “kid” Clare. At the playground she’s able to pretty much play with all of the equipment (sometimes with some spotting) and has been enjoying the teeter-totter, big slides, bid-kid swings, monkey bars, etc.
She’s pretending to put her foot over the edge of the climbing structure and saying “careful!”
Clare’s first big-girl art projects – glue sticks with supplies. Glue sticking is serious business, as you can see.

I love this picture because it shows Clare sticking out her tongue. The past month or so she can’t seem to concentrate without that tongue coming out of the corner of her mouth.
I’ve decided this picture is called “underdog pease!”

Clare reading a book to her baby. We got her this baby a few weeks ago to practice being a big sister on, and he’s a very loved baby already. He’s read to, given his binky, rocked, put to sleep, wrapped in blankies, burped, and given bottles. He is, however, often naked since Clare likes to take off his pajamas. I guess I shouldn’t be to surprised. If you look closely you can see that Clare’s pajamas are actually on backwards. This isn’t an accident. Clare likes to take her pajamas off too, especially when she’s supposed to be sleeping. This is an issue because she doesn’t stop at her PJs and will take off her diaper and then pee in her crib. So far we are still smarter than our kid, so the solution has been putting Clare in backwards pajamas for naps and nighttime.

Sprinkler day! Clare loves the “sprinkle” – though sometimes she prefers to run in it, and sometimes she prefers to wave at it.
Sand box time with our happy girl!