Unexpected Holiday

This last week I suddenly realized that I had Friday off work because of Good Friday. Being a fairly unusual holiday, J was working and I completely forgot about it. So I decided to turn it into “Clare-Mom Day” and spent the whole day playing with my favorite toddler. It was from being Good Friday to Best Friday – we had a ball.
In the morning we went to Tiny Tots Storytime at a local library, where we read books, sang songs and played with other “tots.” After lunch and nap, we took advantage of the sunny weather and went for a looooong hike at Tryon Creek. The hike went a little far for some short legs, but we had a good time nonetheless. It was fun to watch Clare run around in the woods and do typical kid stuff – throwing rocks, picking up sticks, climbing on boulders, walking on logs, etc. It was hard to get a picture of her looking at the camera, since she spent most of her time running and looking everywhere but at me. When I asked her to “look at the camera and give me a pretty smile” she would throw a half-hearted, eye-rolling kind of smile to appease me for about half a second and then run after a robin or something. I’ll spare you all of the pictures I have of her whipping her head away. We topped it off with ice cream sundaes and a visit with Grandma and Grampa. All around, a lovely day.


“Stick!”


With her “flow-lees” (flowers)

Total Mom Bragging Post


Don’t say I didn’t warn you, but this post is the braggiest, most in your face my-kid-is-the-smartest-in-the-whole-world post that I may have ever written. I just can’t help myself, but I do realize that it might come across as a bit pretentious, obnoxious and even arrogant to people so just FYI that I’m going to the farthest reaches of my Mom-bragging.

OK, that over I’ll just come out and say it. My kid is the smartest 21-month-old EVER! Seriously, the toddler is brilliant. Now J and I have been called fairly bright before, but I think that our daughter is probably way more intelligent than both of us combined. A few examples:
  • Clare can now identify a bunch of letters. She’s really interested in words and letters and can point out A, G, C, R, W and a bunch of others. Adam makes a point to say “A for Adam, C for Clare, D for Dog, etc.” and Clare will regularly point out an A on a sign and say “A for Adam!.” Seriously, not even 2 and she really wants to learn her letters.
  • She also is beginning to know her numbers. She knows the quantity and number 2. She’s started telling us when there are two of something – “two blankies,” “two earrings,” etc. We’re working on identifying other quantities (one, three…) but I’m pretty impressed that she’s so accurate with declaring two things.
  • She can count to 10. OK, she doesn’t understand the concept of counting quantities besides 2 yet but she knows the phonetics of the words 1 – 10. Tonight I asked her how many ears she had, and asked her to count them. Her answer was “one, two, free, fo, fide, six, seben, eight, ni, ten!” I know that if she had somehow seen both ears next to each other (like on a stuffed animal for example) she might have said “two!” but asking her to count means that she’ll run off a stream of words. Still, it’s pretty brilliant. Not to mention cute.
  • I think I’ve mentioned before that Clare can almost recite some of her books. Tonight she pulled out “Are You my Mother?” to read. Based on where she got it from, I don’t think it’s been read to her recently. Still, when I would turn to a page she would recite a line from that page (“down down down” or “I am a cow”). From a week or so ago when we last read the book she remembered certain lines on certain pages. This book has 40 some pages (very simple, but still a lot of pages). Her memory is incredible!
  • She’s talking in full paragraphs. Now, I don’t usually understand most of her soliloquies but she will tell me long, involved explanations and stories about things. I’m pretty sure her vocabulary is considerably larger than her diction and enunciation, so we don’t catch half of what she’s saying but that will come in time. It does lead to some frustration on her part though, and I think it encourages whining. We know what she’s conveying when she whines, though we work hard not to acknowledge it and say “use your words.”
  • When she does use her words she will say up to 4 “English” words in a row sometimes in a sentence. Usually it’s for pretty simple stuff, “More juice please Grandma” for example (which lead Grandma to stop right in the middle of a parking lot and give Clare more juice on the spot). In the wee hours last night I went into her room because she was crying and she reached up to me and said “rock for minute Mama.” So if you drove by our house at 3 am (and could somehow see in the dark) you would’ve found Clare and I in the rocking chair.
  • She’s becoming more and more empathetic and tuned into emotions. When her buddy G is sad and crying she always rubs his back and says “it’s OK.” If she hears a baby or kid crying she gets worried and says “baby sad.” She’s also very worried when she sees a sad person in one of her books. We’re working to develop new emotional words for her, happy, angry, etc. So far she also recognizes happy. She hasn’t used the words to describe her own emotions yet, but I expect soon we’ll hear “Clare sad.”
Oh yeah, not to mention she’s cute too!

Beach Bums


Hooray! Papa McPherson came and visited us from Tennesse! He’s our first houseguest in the new house (hooray!) and we all had a great time on his visit. Clare warmed up to him right away and by the time I got home on Friday night they were sharing secrets on the couch together. I think he reminds her of Daddy. Clare requests that next time Papa comes to visit (and we hope it’s soon!) he brings “Oma” with him. We all missed Darlene.
While Wayne was visiting, we all went to the coast on the least rainy day of the weekend. Of course getting out the door took a while, but we got to Cannon Beach in time for some beach combing and then went to Astoria for dinner. It was windy and a little chilly on the beach, but we had a nice time anyway. Clare likes the beach, especially the waves, but she’s not a huge fan of sand. In fact the picture below is one I took after she fell down and couldn’t get up because she didn’t want to put her hands in the sand. I’m not sure that sand castles will be her thing.
A few fun bullet points about 21 month old Clare:
  • One of her favorite words is “another.” For a while we thought she was saying Yellow because it sounds like “a-lellow” but finally we figured out it was “another.” She uses it all the time to refer to something else or in addition to. She’ll use it for “a-lellow book” or “a-lellow cookie” but also if we give her something that isn’t quite right (like the wrong binky!) she’ll give the not-quite-right object back to us and request “a-lellow one” and keep requesting it until she gets the one she wants.
  • She also says “come on!” and “go!” as orders. We were coming in the house over the weekend and she leaned over my shoulder and yelled “come on Papa!” She will also tell me “Go Mama!” (as in go away) when she doesn’t like what I’m doing. We’re working on that.
  • Baby Girl had a nasty cold and her first ear infection last week. It was rough to see our little girl so sick and sad for several days (not to mention scary when she spiked her first 103+ fever!). However the illness has passed and she’s back to her singing, dancing, silly self.
  • She is climbing on EVERYTHING. Her favorite activity these days is to climb on the kitchen chairs. Last week I caught her sliding down off of the table. Fortunately that only happened once (she knows better) but she loves to climb on the kitchen chairs, sit with her feet out in front of her and put a sippy on the table like a grown up. Baby girl really wants to be a “big girl” these days.

We’re Back…


Yes, we are still alive around here, though the blog has been sorely neglected. Since last time we talked, we’ve packed up and moved about 1.5 miles away to our beautiful new house. The house is beautiful, the neighborhood is friendly, we have wonderful friends and family who helped us tremendously, and we are all enjoying being in a bigger space. It was also just as crazy, chaotic and exhausting and I thought it would be. I may never move again. We still have unpacked boxes sitting around (though now they are mostly limited to the office and the garage) and I still haven’t found my extra towels and a bunch of other things I’m just getting used to living without.
I’ll put in some pictures of Clare bopping around the new house – to give you an idea of what the new house looks like. Most of these pictures were taken in our first week here, so ignore the boxes and the laundry basket sitting around.




Moving whining aside, Clare is pretty cute these days. She struggled with the move a little bit so we saw some extra whining, testing and general crankiness. Fortunately the struggle is over and she loves her new house. I planned to set up her room like a reading nook with all of her books and comfy places to sit – I figured she’d love the quiet time in there. Nope. No more quiet time in this house! While Clare regularly played quietly in her room in the condo, in the new house she likes to run, generally shrieking or singing, from one end of the house to the other. I think she likes to be able to stretch her legs. She also likes to look out the windows, point out when the neighbors wind “chines” are chiming, and climb on the kitchen chairs.

I’ll write more about Clare’s latest milestones later, but here are a few pictures from our new front yard. The daffodils are blooming and it finally looks like it might be spring around here.