Busy Little Bug


When Clare was a few months old we went to a friend’s first birthday party. I was watching the birthday boy and all of his little friends and thought to myself “those one-year-olds are certainly busy.” Well, now that I have my very own I agree with my first impression. Our particular almost-one-year-old is awfully busy crawling, exploring, tasting, pulling up, climbing over, grabbing, talking, lifting, rolling, hitting things together, throwing them away, etc. Every once in a while she’ll sit down with one of her beloved books, but for the most part Clare has places to go and people to see. Since my nickname for her is Bug, these days she’s a Busy Bug or a Doodle Bug.


She’s still very cuddly though, so she’s still our sweet little Love Bug. But she’s also getting quite feisty (even more so…) and continues to express her feelings about things LOUDLY so we’ve started calling her a Stink Bug or Stinker.
We have to say Stinker instead of ummm… other names because Clare understands what we’re staying pretty well these days. So far we can just tell because she follows our basic instructions (most of the time) like “sit down please” and “can you put that toy IN the box?” It surprises me though when I ask her to do something and she does it, so it makes me think that she’s understanding quite a bit more than we’ve given her credit for. Hence the cleaned-up language around our house lately 🙂



We celebrated Jeremy’s first Father’s Day last weekend with my parents. Unfortunately the weather didn’t cooperate, but darnit we decided to go hiking and have a BBQ so we did it anyway. You can’t tell from the picture below necessarily, but we did have a nice time even though it was a hike in the rain. In fact we had waffles at the Waffle Window in the rain, hiked in the Gorge in the rain and then BBQed in the rain. My mom said it reminded her of camping – I think she was being charitable 🙂 But the Father’s in question (my dad and J) thought that the company made up for it – especially one smily and kissy little girl named Clare.
All this busy-ness makes for a sleepy little girl. Below is the position that Clare finally crashed into a nap in this last week. I don’t know if you can tell from the position but she was literally mid-crawl and she just couldn’t keep her eyes open anymore. Regardless of whether or not she’s a Busy Bug, Cuddle Bug or Stink Bug on a given day when I see her sleeping like this it reminds me that she’s my precious little angel.

Eleven-Twelfths of a Year


Our girl is now an active eleven-month old! How did that happen? I don’t know if it’s the crawling this month or what, but suddenly she has the look of a kid instead of a baby. Our little bean is growing up.

She is pulling herself up on everything. Not only is she pulling up but she is creeping along holding onto furniture and getting into all sorts of things. She’s also transferring from one object to another and starting to experiment with standing without holding onto anything. She hasn’t figured out how to get down yet (besides yelling for someone to help her) but she’s strong enough to hold herself up for quite a while.
Clare has started to really enjoy her stuffed animals, particularly “Monkey” and “Henri the bear.” She talks to them, gives them hugs and kisses, and carries them around with her. She’s also been very affectionate and gives us lots of hugs and kisses too. They’re pretty precious.
Everything, from toys to the washing machine, receive a pointed index finger and “bah.” I’m not sure exactly what “bah” means but she sure points out the world around her.

She continues to love food and eating. Her favorite foods are still meat and fruit, though strawberries and cherries may be outranking blueberries and favorite fruits. She also really likes buttered toast and pasta with butter and parmesan. She’ll pretty much eat anything, but she likes to feed herself thank you very much. Unfortunately for her there are certain foods, yogurt for example, that need to be spoon-fed to her. She tolerates being spoon fed but we’ll all enjoy the days when she can feed herself with a spoon.
Fortunately this month she’s started drinking water and juice out of a sippy cup. Phew – I was beginning to think it would never happen. She’s partial to grape juice, but, since I’m the one who does her laundry, I prefer water.
She is the most joyful little girl. When she laughs her face lights up and her whole body shakes with joy. She also loves to laugh and giggle, particularly when she’s tickled. So we do a lot of tickling around here.

And she’s off…

There’s no keeping her on the farm once she’s seen Paris… or at our house there’s no keeping Clare in one spot once she’s figured out how to move. Oh how things have gotten interesting around here in the last few weeks. Clare is quickly leaving no corner undiscovered, no speck on the floor unpicked-up, no box unlooked in and no bag, shoe, pet food dish, trash can, or other potential toy unexplored. I don’t think I’ve ever paid so much attention to what, exactly, is on my floors before. Sweeping and vacuuming and daily occurrences around here and she still manages to find some thread or speck we haven’t cleaned up to put in her mouth. Sigh… it’s good for her, right?

Clare has also mastered the art of crawling with her toys – either in her hands, like the picture below, or sometimes in her mouth. It’s pretty funny to watch her explore her world. the other day she was crawling with a sock in each hand (?) and when she got to the wood floor she couldn’t figure out why her hands kept slipping out from under her. I do a fair amount of chuckling (when I’m not racing to keep a step ahead of her) at the predicaments she gets herself into.
Clare’s newfound mobility has necessitated some minor home repairs to babyproof things in our teensy, tinsy little condo. For example, below J is putting a shelf about 3 feet high in what used to be our hallway coat closet. Why would he do this? So we have a place to put the cat’s food that’s out of the reach of one little human crawler but within the reach of a little feline crawler.

Our sweet little baby is turning into quite the sassy little toddler. She understands what “no” is, and it will often give her pause when we say it to her. However, Little Miss is quite opinionated and will tell us exactly what she thinks about things, specifically what she wants and when she wants it. She hasn’t figured out how to give commands yet, but I suspect that once she figures it out we’ll have a bossy little girl on our hands. Her vocabulary hasn’t increased necessarily but everyday she practices a new word or sound. Today it was “bay” – everything she pointed at (which was everything) was christened “bay.” Yesterday was “duck” day. She’s also quite a little singer and makes all of our adventures a musical. We got quite a bit of attention in New Seasons last weekend since Clare serenaded the store literally the whole time was shopping. I’ve never been inspired to song while grocery shopping but apparently Clare was.


Nothing specific about this picture – I just thought it was cute that Clare took the top 3 blocks off and put them in a line in the bottom of the exersaucer. She’s quite methodical.
Lastly, she leaves no part of the house unexplored. Here she is examining the heater. She’s started pulling herself up with more regularity, so we may spend this weekend taking our babyproofing up a couple of feet.

An incomplete guide to the last two weeks in pictures (a lot of pictures)

Grandma came to visit! Yay! We love Grandma!

Clare showed her some of her new tricks, like taking out all of her books from the basket and putting them on the floor. Oh! And getting into weird positions while looking at books – doesn’t look comfortable to me…
Grandma brought the best gift ever! A Clare-sized rocking chair from Great-Grandma in Glendive, Montana! Clare immediately started rocking in the chair and continues to love it.

What could be better than one Grandma? Why two Grandma’s of course! Grandma T visited from Alaska and promptly fell even more in love with our Clare Bear. The feeling was mutual.

Between lots of Grandma-loving Clare has been working on new tricks – like pulling up and crawling.

“Hey, what’s up here?”
“Hmmmppffff – gotta get my foot under me if I’m going to get that candle.”

“What are you doing Mom?”

“That’s hard work! I’ll just play with Monkey instead.”

And lastly, and perhaps most importantly, Clare-Bear is now officially mobile. She took her first crawls on a Friday night (my first overnight away from her) right in front of Daddy. He got it on video and I’ll post that shortly. Parenting in the digital age meant that he called me as it was happening and then promptly took a cell phone video that he sent out to everyone he could think of. By the time I actually saw her crawl for the first time on Sunday practically the whole world knew about it. Clare loves crawling and being mobile. It means that things are very interesting at our house – J and I are trying to keep one crawl ahead of her busy little fingers. It’s a challenge but so far so good.

So you’d think that in all of this picture-taking we would have taken pictures of JP and Deb’s visit and our Memorial Day weekend in Bend. Sadly, there is no photographic evidence of our relaxing weekend, hanging out with JP and Debbie, Deb’s strawberry cupcakes, Clare’s first taste of frosting, JP’s bread making, lovely long walks along the Deschutes River or across lava fields, the pair of swans on the river outside the house, or any of the other relaxing memories. There’s also no photographic evidence of Jeremy’s business trip to Las Vegas, my business trip to Chicago, or the colds that Clare and I had last week. Phew! It’s been a wild ride the last month and we’re all looking forward to a slightly calmer June.